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这是给“谈中国”博主的第二篇翻译,很有趣的一篇文章。中国男人到底行不行?试试就知道啦,但是可能还是需要引导引导,因为中国处在一个相对来说‘性隐晦’的文化氛围中,且性启蒙教育不成熟。原博主结合自身的故事,娓娓道来,原文更有意思,这里算是我个人翻译的另一个小尝试。

原文:http://www.speakingofchina.com/ask-the-yangxifu/sex-and-chinese-men/

译文:http://www.speakingofchina.com/ask-the-yangxifu/qing-jiao-yangxifu-zhongguo-nanren-yu-xing/

 

翻译选段:

为什么我的新加坡伴侣(华人)床上功夫那么烂?35岁的他是一个相当成功的制作人,到过世界各地,也有过几段较长的恋情,经常能接触到电影和媒体中的“性”…但为什么他却显得一无所知?他甚至都不去尝试。他的前女友都是华人或新加坡人…当我问到这个问题的时候我的中国朋友们告诉我在中国文化中男人并不浪漫,在床上表现被动而且不愿去讨好女人。其他人则说亚洲人本来就不如欧洲人那样激情四射。但我还是觉得这难以置信,我相信肯定会有很多亚洲男人知道该怎么做…但同时我也听到过西方男人说自己的中国女友之前从未有过高潮等等。我很想知道你对中国人/亚洲人性关系的认识以及是否他们真的很差?我觉得这应该不太可能,或许只是我的男友摸不着头脑而已。但还是希望你能够概括一下这个问题。谢谢!

对应原文:

Any idea why my Singaporean (Chinese) lover is so terrible in bed? He is 35, has had long term relationships, has been exposed to the west as he is a successful producer and has been all over the world, he is exposed to the concept of good sex through films and media… so why is he so clueless? He doesn’t even try. In the past his gfs have been Chinese and Singaporean.. When I asked Chinese friends they say in Chinese culture men are less romantic and more passive and don’t want to give pleasure to women. Others say Asians are just not as passionate as in european countries for example. Again I find this hard to believe, I am sure there are many Asians who know what they are doing.. but I do hear western men talking of their Chinese girlfriends and how they have never had orgasm etc. I am interested to know what you think of Chinese/Asian sexual relationships and whether it is in fact normal for the sex to be so … bad? I think this is unlikely and I think it is simply that my guy for whatever reason is just totally clueless. But can any generalisations be made on this subject? thanks!

一个小插曲:博主这篇文章实际上已经给翻译过了,而且也贴出来了。我没仔细看,再加上喜欢这篇文章,顺手就给翻了,前后一两个小时的样子。后来博主告诉我我才发现,不过博主也挺有意思,最后还是把我的翻译贴上去了(与原译文放在了一块儿),很赞的以为一位洋媳妇。

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